PA Media - Psychologist to comment on how to navigate big family events

I am a qualified clinical psychologist and have previously discussed family conflict including the royals for the bbc. I am free to chat at 10:05am today on the phone

Family events can regular pose their own challenges, particularly large events with wider family. Such occasions come with a variety of expectations and different personalities to have to navigate. This is alongside the event itself, which may have its own traditions and aspects to feel confident or knowledgeable in. People are usually well accustomed to the characters in their family and recognise most of the values and morals held be each member. It’s useful to acknowledge that other people’s values aren’t always similar to our own or shared by everyone, which is something we should respect. Individuals should try to hold in mind their own values and focus their attention on the original intentions for attending the event, such as celebrating a family members wedding (or Coronation!). This can help reduce the likelihood of becoming entangled in any difficult interactions if one feels like their values are being criticised or challenged by any discussions or other people’s behaviours.