How brokers manage feelings of guilt when mortgage processes don't go smoothly
I am looking to speak with mortgage brokers about how they feel when a mortgage transaction does not go as expected.
While brokers do all they can and often, the issue is out of their hand, they are often the first port of call for frustrated clients. Also, they may also feel bad if they recommended a particular lender - especially now - under the belief that the transaction would go through smoothly only to find that it hasn't.
As a mortgage broker, do you ever feel a sense of guilt or at least some responsibility when things go wrong during a transaction? Or did you used to feel that way when you started your career? Or, do you have newer colleagues who feel bad about it?
How do you manage these feelings or what advice would you give to brokers who feel bad or guilty when a mortgage process doesn't go well? Is focusing on solving the problem the best way to overcome these feelings, or simply acknowledging that it's not your fault?
Responses of 200 words or so will be more than enough!






